Approaching the halfway point of this final season of My Brilliant Friend and I love seeing these two women live fully adult lives. Sometimes I might question some of their choices, but I can’t deny that they are full-grown women making these choices for themselves and their families. Being along for the whole journey has been fun. Excited to see what’s next!
- The Fracture

It’s fascinating to see the shift in time. Seeing the girls grow up in the ’50s, but now we’ve hit 1980. TV’s and music videos and more. We see Nino (Fabrizio Gifuni) with the girls and it’s clear that he cares but there are limits to that care. He’s not their father. And he’s not around enough to be considered one. He flits in and out as he pleases. What kind of example are they really seeing for successful, loving relationships?
Luckily they have Pietro (Pier Giorgio Bellocchio) who continues to be there for Elena, even as she’s pregnant with another man’s child. It genuinely drives me crazy that Elena let this man out of her life for a shitheel like Nino. He never had a chance! Just like Marco. Her heart was always Nino’s and she never tried to make room for another. They had their issues but he was always there as a father and even as a friend for Elena. But he finds his happiness so that’s all that matters. But it’s go-time and poor Elena has to drive herself to the hospital in labor. My god, nothing has given me stress harder than that scene. I can’t stand horror films, but nothing put me on edge harder than wondering if this woman was going to crash her car – the epitome of suspense. But she was alone for the drive and she’s alone for labor and my god, Elena, this is a pretty APT remark on your situation here! You are completely and utterly alone and you don’t get it yet.

Nino finally makes it and continues his silvery-tongued whispers in Elena’s ear. “I can’t live without you.” What was it Lila said about lies being tranquilizers? You don’t live with her now, Nino. She’s a casual piece you visit from time to time. But Pietro calls and checks in on Elena, making sure to bring the girls so they can meet their new sister. Meanwhile, Nino is insisting on baptism. Are you serious? This is a child out of wedlock which is not your first child out of wedlock. Your other bastards aren’t baptized, as Lenu brings up. Go baptize your other illegitimates first and then we can come back around to Imma.
Speaking of Imma, she gets to meet her namesake. What a beautiful scene. Elena and her mother have always had a rough relationship. Imma was hard on Elena because she saw the most promise. She believed her daughter could go do great things and she didn’t want her to be brought down by the shitty neighborhood or the shitty boys from the neighborhood (COUGH NINO COUGH). So while Imma does not love that Nino got Elena pregnant, she knows Elena will keep fighting for her family no matter what she needs to do. But suddenly it’s a medical emergency and Lila and Nino are rushing Imma to the hospital and Elena’s imagination starts running wild…

- The Cheat
Back at the hospital with Lenu and Alfonso (Renato De Simone), we get more of a sense of Lila and Alfonso’s relationship. As they explain to Elena, Lila always saw Alfonso for who they truly wanted to be. And lets Alfonso be who they need to be. But Marcello doesn’t like it. “If I get killed, remember it was Marcello.” Even Alfonso knows danger could be around any corner. And what a terror to live with every moment of every day…

Grandma Immacolata is throwing down some law with her sons before she kicks it. I bet she could still whup the two of them. But Elena is finally feeling the time and then she’s gone and suddenly life is still going. Speaking as someone who lost a parent suddenly, losing a parent unmoors you a little bit before centering you. Everyone in the neighborhood attends the funeral, even Nino. And speaking of grief providing focus, Elena is beginning to see Nino for the annoying prick he is. He is always irritated by men, yet always charmed by ladies. Wonder why that is… But even the dinner with Elena’s publisher and his wife, Nino and the man clash constantly but oh, he’s all smiles for the wife. Elena asks him one night if he’s ever met a “bitch” and he said, “Lila.” And I wonder why that is…
But they’re still cohabitating, or rather, Nino occasionally sleeps there when he’s not at home with his first family. Elena needed help with the place so they hired an older woman who seemed perfectly fine for the task. She reminds Elena that Imma needs more diapers and Elena mentions she’ll pick them up after dropping the girls off at school. However, she gets sidetracked and ends up meandering a bit. She thinks about an idea for her next book and finally remembers the diapers, grabs them, and gets home. Great 
With Nino truly showing his full self, it’s anyone’s guess what Elena will do next. If she’s running home to Lila, it stands to reason she could potentially go back. She might be in Naples but she’s not in the neighborhood. Your support system is still a car ride away, not a floor up. I’ve truly come to appreciate what it means to have family and people nearby that you can trust. Having a support system close by can make so much of life easier, but Elena doesn’t always choose easy, does she? Can’t wait to see what she chooses next!
Our look at MY BRILLIANT FRIEND will continue soon. Find the series on HBO & in the HBO Hub on Max.

